Modern Femininity: Embrace Your Being A Woman

 

What is our role as woman these days? How do we support ourselves? We know that doing it all doesn't work for health of ourselves or others. There seems more for us to do so how do we enhance ourselves and flow into this growing role? I share what I learned over 10 years ago about oxytocin and woman's role in the world. 

First of all, we need to understand our feminine body. It is different than man's and we have not fully embraced this. They are just now medically figuring out what we have obviously known innately. We do all these men things for health and it just is not working for us. The rules are different, very different. Men love competition, hard physical work to build themselves and intense mental stimulation. That is their center. Woman come from the more feeling, emotional space. We like ease, gathering, chattering, cooking, creating. We are tenders by nature. The pace of this very different. We can produce a huge meal while chatting with someone at the counter. We flow it with ease. 

I learned that when we are in this slower pace of oxytocin, the tend and befriend of the parasympathetic nervous system, we find greater health and energy. The game then becomes how can we be in relaxed flow more of the time. How do we stop the adrenal pace that our world has trained us on and still get it all done? By being in this more creative, relaxed state most of the time,  we actually have more energy and production. This is how our body is designed to work. Rhythmically rather than the march of men. 

So what does that mean? Well we become masters of our emotional state. We all know we are more emotional than men most of the time. This is how it is supposed to be. We move from our hearts not our minds. We need to adapt our body back to this flow state and then it does it naturally as this is how we are designed. We just need a reboot. We do this by practices in pleasure. Remembering to add pleasure, the nature of us woman into everyday tasks. Enjoying the process, the movement, the emotion of things. This is easy for us!

The more I study on top of this feminine learning, the more science is bringing forward this adding in yin energy, slower, more mystical, heartfelt, emotional energy to our tasks. This joy, this creative pleasure is the woman's realm and it needs to resurface. We create the pleasure in life for all of humanity. We are the tenders, the nurturers, the gatherers of humanity. It fuels and creates health in us. We just aren't doing it rightly. Not from the martyr perspective or the production perspective. There is another way. The power we have to enrich life by adding beauty and pleasure to all things. It is our nature!!!

We learn to do this through fun practices with other woman as well as through our daily lives. Add pleasure, fun, creativity to all you do. Production is like a dance when done by woman. We use the group dynamic, know how this interconnection weaves things done and we use the web of support for we are the web of support. Woman connected in fun, growth, honor and joy holds up the whole of this world. We do it all anyway. Lets do it together and in fun. 

When woman gather, they should play with this intuition and emotional nature. Do activities that remind them of pleasure, youthfulness, charm, play, connection, communication, flow, adaptability and laughter are key. We can gather many ways but this is the healing vibe of community, of woman, of socialization, of gathering. We can chat and share our feelings which has it's moment but the playful reminder of who we are is the modern element. We need to feel this alive, vital frequency together to juice us to bring that into the world. 

As we entered the workforce, we lost our flexible time schedule and connected less socially. This is the nourishing aspect that fills us and others. We need to balance this yang production energy with some of the yin that causes all to thrive. The gathers, the connection, the conversation,  the care that we are here for. We are the web of life. We are healthiest when bring this into life in ourselves and in those we support. It is womanly. It is what we are. It is what we are missing. Knowing ourselves through gathering, relaxing through life and being productive in this different physical energy. 

In a panic, I want woman around. They can mobilize an army of support at the drop of a hat. This is powerful!! Especially at this time! Look at how the woman adjusted through covid, through home schooling, through the crisis, who really adapted the world? Who ran the daily to make it happen when they told us to cut off from each other? Who teamed up and created new ways and systems to adapt to all the conditions of everyone home? The woman did and we did well. 

We are powerful when we know our strengths and how our body and design has been created to operate optimally. I teach this to woman for it is free energy. When we connect to our body rightly, understand how we work, we get way more done and with less effort. We glide differently, adaptively, naturally with all changes. We have great power in this femininity. It is needed and the time for us to embrace
this way is upon us. This is why I teach and coach. After reclaiming this you don't need to be seeking answers to health and energy. You become centered in this womanly "Shakti" they call it in the East. It is who you are. 

Embrace your womanly, heart centered design. Glide and be the joy in life that you want to be. It is needed and we create most of the world. We are the buyers in the world and we can realize that together we create the joy vibe on earth. To gather, have fun, in pretty ways with laughter and community. This is our territory. We need to bind up and clear the woman to woma competition or whatever it is that doesn't support each other. We are the great creators of connection, negotiation and blending being called in this moment. 

Lets do it together Ladies!!