Maxim Cover: Sex Objects vs. Feminine Essence

The Maxim magazine cover really created a stir! I love it when thinking is up for review! I had to make my commentary about the difference of woman just being sex objects vs the beauty of feminine essence. No doubt woman have great power in beauty! This magazine showcases our alluring qualities that so entice men. In this context, it appears cheap and not a power at all yet their are all types out there and men who chose the sex object are more animal instinctual.  These instincts are part of masculine energy. A man whom has just this base thinking is not one that a strong woman wants to attract, have or even be near.

Feminine essence has beauty as one of its powers. When a woman is beautiful, men are dropped over it and would give up all for this. It is their instinct. We have much more power as well. We should not berate beauty just use it wisely. This magazine is showing it in its lowest form.  Selectivity is a  power we have, we get to chose the man. A strong woman would not select a man who just treats her as a sex object. Self sufficiency is also a power we can have so we are not needing a man, thus drawing any man or a man of lower instinctual nature. There are many men and woman who connect on this level, thus this showing of it. If you are self sufficient, then you have truly many powers. You can use beauty, selectivity and only allow a man of great masculine essence who will wine and dine you, protect you and take care of you not because you need it but because it fulfills and inspires him.

Many men and woman are mistrained about this, thus the craziness these days. When woman are self sufficient and in their power it will automatically attract a strong man. Of course this man wants to dominate but a strong feminine essence would not allow such. She is her own being and full in her strength, will use all her powers of dynamic change, her roles, her beauty, her wit, her charm and mystery to keep him about if she so chooses. That is what a strong man wants. Sex is easy and they can just pay for it. A woman grounded in her feminine essence inspires a man to give up his kingdom just for time with her. No sex, no equal paying of the bill, just to be in her inspiring, magnetizing and, yes, alluring presence. That is how it works when woman use their power rightly. Can't wait until we remember this and train all the girls to remember this!