Battle Or Change through Peace

There are many ways to get what you want. Battle is one and quite frankly in my opinion the less attractive option. When you battle you better be stronger than your enemy, if it is a man and you are a woman this can cause concern. If you are a mom and it is a child, you don't always win the fight of wills. I find that there are other more effective ways to use and strategy is important part of discernment. Clearly the situation depicts the way to go, consciousness the most important part.

I like Mother Teresa who said "if you have a peace rally invite me". She was a powerful woman whom didn't use war. You strengthen the anger vibration when you match it, going head to head can work yet in Aharaj, spiritual aikidoo, you rarely match will to will to ensue battle. You chose a more clever way to shift the situation and aviod conflict, you address your opponent by using a heart or flexiblity to shift their energy. You must be present and out of your ego. You can be right and not fight with will but use a way to avoid conflict by discharging someone.

Woman naturally do this all the time. We use a different way with children than do men usually. We sweetly allure them to what we want. When conflict ensues we softly redirect often, it is not our way to go into battle. We are collaborators, connectors using a more intuitive system to get things handled. That is why we are the glue of the community. We negotiate differently, we inspire and motivate in a powerful way that is different than battle. We are blenders and there is great power in this way versus straight battle. It may appear weaker or less dominant but it solves things clearly with less destruction. In the end, I think it is equally powerful, just different.

As woman gain power in using their softer way, realizing this it is an important, equally powerful way to manage things at the right time, the world will shift. Anger is an important emotion and it is a transformer. Yet we can use it in many ways for change, not just fighting. Frustration brings change but it does not have to be used in anger alone. Anger can be the fuel but it can be used as an energy for movement and not just expressed in its raw form. The energy can be used softer, wiser and more evolved. It takes clarity, awareness and intuition to use it in its other forms. Woman naturally do this often. I can get something done by allowing another to think they are right and still win my way. I can remember the goal and let them think whatever they want and move them in my direction through compliment, through humor, through heart. Yes it appears to their ego that they got their way yet I moved them how I needed using a tool other than fighting. We do it all the time unconsciously. Imagine how much more we could accomplish using this tool correctly and consciously.

Beauty is a tool we use all the time. Nature uses it for all her purposes of creating. A softer voice can stop a conflict. Giggling in a fight can disarm it and shift it. Walking away can end a battle. Shifting focus to the end result can stop a battle on the details. These are tools of feminine power. You can flirt you way out of a conflict. You can use your heart by complimenting someone to entice them back to working with you. These are not weak ways of moving, they are beautiful ways we have to shift situations. I don't chose to use manly behaviors. That is for men. I chose womans ways to do things. They are effective and powerful not less than. They are not raw competing, they are softer ways of changing things less aggressively. You may find them to be weaker, I think it may appear that way at first, but in the end, if you get what you want, isn't that change through peace? A quieter power indeed!