Life is a Process

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We hear it continually but some days it doesn't work. Yea, yea, I don't like this part of the process. I get it. I have been in transition almost 8 years since my divorce and it has been a process! An unfolding of the beautiful Lotus Flower of me! How many times did I think, what were you thinking when you left your little farm world? Whatever inside called me and I have wondering the whole time for what manifestation??? Now on the precipice of really pulling together a fun life of all the things I want, I go Ohhhhhhhhhhh! 

There is inner work we do as we grow. We get divorced or our mate dies. We care for our parents after our children are grown.  We have periods where children, family, work, school take up big chunks of life. Yet a beautiful life and process is unfolding. Even if it takes years to see it! And it has taken me years to really regroup and settle into myself since wife and mother. 

I moved to a new area during covid. That has been a process to learn and meet community. To find how to mix my talents into a meaningful, fun path for this leg where I know few people. I did years of the divorced, don't know what I am doing on my own yet! I have dated and investigated many ways to expand. But I finally found my own personal mix here for me right now!

This is elating to say the least! At some point in the past few months I realized, I can make the life of my dreams. Whatever that looks like for me it is available! I thought that but suddenly, like a jolt I felt it and left all the stories behind. With age comes freedom like when you first start out on your own. I am a later bloomer for certain  but I am creating this next epoch with full intention and I deserve it. I always have but never really embodied that belief as I have now. 

Maybe age allows you to really ground acceptance for things that occur. You can't change anything once it is done. You live all these years watching everything and finally decide, I get what I want no matter what happened to me. No matter what I did or said. I forgive myself and others. I am fully, energetically in a new space where I can live the rules in my own way. I think this is happening to many!

We all want to do that. The process is a defining of  "what does life  mean to me now?" We have different answers at different times. We get to know ourselves as we experience and learn to detach from the experience and not let it plague us so. Give up beating yourself up. You  have done it enough and anything you did wrong is over, let it go! Clear it! Focus on what you want if you don't like what is. Leave the past behind and use the new day. 

For 2 and a half years, I have been in a whole new state during the weirdest world I ever lived in. I am getting old according to culture but I am feeling more power and beauty than ever before. I am coming out of the cocoon of creation into the butterfly with drying wings and it feels oh so good. I know and hear you all in transition and know how it feels! I have taken a long time to grow up kind of. Life is a process they say! 

I believe the energies, the world and our hearts are going through a transition that will land beautiful. It may be a process, but I know I am not the only one synchronizing with the self within. Creating from there the life outside of me from a truly embodied place. It feels oh so good. It is why I can support people through transition as I have spent many years in it. 

Finally, Lyn Ann is doing what she wants. I imagine I will meet a partner as it is all flowing forward. I have done my work, I grow and learn each day and I am fully embodying my creator. My power. My dreams. My authentic self. It is the shift into the Wise Woman so feared in our world. Yet I am loving it!

Remember that we have these directions we go for years, then something shifts and we enter a new phase. Either by choice or how life just unfolds. It is truly a bit of both. We go through those times where we recalibrate who we are and then pick another direction, depending on the life phase. In all phases it pays to love yourself or the phases are here to teach you that. You flex with the new conditions, observe ( we are impatient in this part) then we begin moving again when we decide what we want next. 

We all have different ways we live this process called life. It is ok. We want different things and that makes it creative and mysterious. You got to keep your eyes open and learn to control and direct your energy. It is a process of living. We can enjoy parts and some not. It is all part of one big story. 

If your feeling down or in hardship, remember it is all just a process. Feel through it. Learn. It will not always be logical or what we want. As we go, we get clearer and clearer on what will fulfill us now after blah blah blah. It is really all good. When you get to the change point, where things start moving ahead, you truly value it. You savor it and enjoy that you keep going through it all and now your on your next leg. 

I send love and light to all of us. It is odd in the world and we are all dealing with different learnings, experiences, adventure and fulfillments. It is what this experience is. A process of living on the earth. Filled with all parts of the trauma and drama, joy and grief, loneliness and love, etc....Eternally Traveling Consciousness! We are that! How Lovely to Be Queen!

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