Monday, November 26, 2012

Flirt with Life!

Flirting has a interesting connotation. It has a playful feeling to it and I like that. It is a fun interaction we all do. It also is very complimentary in an honorable way. When we flirt with someone, it is giving this great gift of a compliment. "I find you pleasing" is what it says. I don't consider it just sexually, we all don't, we flirt with others in a playful way to say we enjoy them.

Woman are masters at complimenting this way. They smile, they share quick eye contact, tilt their head or reposition themselves sweetly. We revel in beauty when we come from our authentic nature, we are sensual and flirting is one of our graceful ways we express ourselves and our delight in the world. It is natural to us yet I have learned some negative messages about it through life and am glad to clear them and take another look.

It is not just a manipulation to get things or to find a mate as we have heard. It is not a bad thing to engage in, too sexy or open. "People  will get the wrong message", I have heard a million times and  it is on them. We naturally respond to things we delight in this way. It is our playful way as nourishers, creatives and artists. We play, flirt and revel in things. It is a joyful energy and it relaxes our bodies.

And it is a high compliment! It shows others that you enjoy them in a fun way. No it doesn't mean we want to have sex, just that someone is enjoyable. The energy is beautiful of giving and feels good. It is silly, safe and friendly. It is a sensual part of our nature and I think people need to see the great gift in it and be open express it more!

We don't just flirt with people either! We flirt with life. That is feminine energy, that is the flowing nature we are bringing forward so we can enjoy more of our life. It is our natural way, to be curious, playful, inspiring and girly. The way of woman that we must balance with our thinking mind. Our body communication is so much apart of us. Experiment with it. Enjoy it. Revel in it! Flirt with all that shows up! Charmingly engaging in life and giving kindness.



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