Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Riding the Joy of Others Success!

I am not so certain where came the idea that when another receives we feel like we get less. I guess part of the training we got from the era of war our parents lived through. Standing in line for rations, many immigrants that had to make their way in new country, part of history that we fortunately never have lived. However it came about, it is not part of my core. I have always delighted in others joy. Being very sensitive to others, a woman's way, I have always been able to ride in others happiness as though my own. It infects me to see one succeed, happy for them and knowing that joy could fuel me when I am not moving so fast.

This past week I have heard many stories of others moving. My friend got great photographic recognition, my brother a job where he asked for the moon and got it, my friend found a solution to reclaim her house, another is opening a new restaurant in Willow Grove. I am able to celebrate these successes as though my own. All people I love and their movement reminded me that I have my own right around the corner. I could of been jealous, sad it was not mine, worried that I wouldn't get mine so to speak. Since I feel them, which we all have the capacity to do, I find it great fuel to be around and it helps me raise my own spirit thus my own movement.

I want you all to realize the greatness we have about us when we are low there is always someone close who is high. This is a great gift and tool for us to use. Energy connects us all so if one is high, their energy is higher and we can catch some of it if we tune in. Rather than feel bad, or be worried there in not enough, the reality is that they have abundance that we can easily catch. By really listening to them, by being near them, if we open to it, we can bring brightness to our life. We indeed are all connected, so we can use this to move forward.

It is as easy as truly being present with them. Giving them the moment to describe in great detail their success  so we can feel the joy of it. Once we do that, we can't help but feel hopeful, excited and charged toward our own life knowing there is an ebb and flow going. We may be in the ebb, hearing their flow reminds us of the cycle and we can raise our feeling nature towards flow by feeling it from others. It is so simple and effective a way to shift yourself. I am not sure why we don't just do this naturally because law makes it so. Our mind has odd things in it that can block us from feeling it. I encourage you to be aware of this around you so you  find it easier to get on track.

I am all for riding others joy! Celebrating their success, feeling their accomplishments and rewards, being in the moment of greatness with them for my own health and success. It makes life easier remembering that we don't have to do it all ourselves. Others are willing to share their extra vitality by us just giving attention to it. It works wonders for life. I could not survive without this tool of riding others joy. We ride others negativity so easily and it is indeed the same principle turned good. So use it! You will strengthen your bond with others and give yourself a boost toward your goals at the same time! Doesn't seem like their is any other way to manage. Blessed I am to be around others greatness! You can be too, as easy as paying attention to the energy of it!

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