Ladies, Why Mental Processes for Change Don't Work for Us!

Ever wonder why we do all these techniques, learnings and attempts to lose weight, be powerful, use our voice, gain money, affirmations,etc and it just doesn't work? You know what to do, you have the plan, but you just can't seem to stick to it. You just do opposite and then beat yourself up for not doing what you know you should do.

Let me help you with some valuable information that is part of this great movement in feminine awakening. We can not change ourselves through mentalizing like men. It is not how we change, grow, learn etc.. I am not saying that we are not mental at all. But we do not operate on the mental plane foremost as men do. I am very mental, I study and know many things and have my whole life. However, the feeling, the empathetic understanding, the emotional plane is our area of mastery. Sensing, gut feeling, intuition is our brilliance.

So if you want to change you must come at it emotionally. You must understand and go through these emotions as you change. They run us so we can not talk ourselves out of them by mentalizing. If you try to lose weight by using your mind, you will keep eating. If you try to lose weight by noticing how you feel when you eat and what is going on within you, you will have a easier time losing weight. If you want to feel worthy, you won't get it by an affirmation that you are worthy. You must find the feelings that contradict that statement and shift on the feeling level.

We learn here at the Lotus Project understanding our creativitiy, our joy and our mastery comes from working on the intuitive level vs. the mental level. When you catch the difference, everything shifts. It is part of the great movement about, learning the ways of a woman. Pleasurable, creative ways to tap into your essence!